Anonymous submitted: If you wanna find someone decent, don't try to 'Hook up'. Try something a bit more meaningful.
Oh anon. I know what I want, and there’s nothing wrong with that. It’s very possible to find a decent person to fool around with.
I pretty much always want physical closeness with people. However, I don’t always want a relationship. If I were to try something more meaningful with someone right now, I’d be leading them on. And that’s not very nice.
Besides, why is sex/kissing/skipping through meadows holding hands/etc only meaningful when in a relationship/romantic way? Relationships are nice. Physical things are nice. However, they don’t always have to go hand in hand.
Not to mention a lot of my really awesome friends are in the same boat as I am. And I think they are pretty decent people.
There’s nothing wrong with hooking up, my sweet anon. Maybe if we took away some of the stigma, it’d be a bit easier to find decent people.
